Varanasi, Uttar Pradesh

The holiest place in India. An amazing scene from a 6,000 year old city nestled along the holy Ganga River. The Ganges as it is called by those from the outside, this river dissolves the bones and ashes of the devout Hindu followers.

The Manakarnika Ghats on the western banks of the Ganges is the ceremonial funeral pyre where the loved and deceased are cremated on a pyre of various types of wood their ashes then spread into the holy river. From the ashes any gold or other precious metals or stones are filtered out by the pyre attendants. The ash cleaners are considered lower caste and this is their payment for looking after the ashes. There is a strict policy when it comes to cremating your loved ones. First, women are not allowed to attend due to the crying and sobbing that comes with a loved ones death and the sadness is believed to bring bad luck to the souls passage into eternity. Also in years past and now against the law women would throw themselves on their husband’s pyres, a ritual known as self-immolation. If a father dies his oldest son attends to the cremation. If a mother dies her husband lights the fire, if a widow, her youngest son attends to the cremation. If there were no sons then a brother of one side or the other would attend. There are five situations where cremation will not occur. If a woman is pregnant, if a child is under 12 years old, if you died from a venomous snake bite, if you died from the pox or if you had leprosy. In these cases the bodies are tied to and weighted down with heavy rocks and the bodies are taken by boat to the middle of the Ganges and thrown over and sunk. The pyres are lit from a fire called the Shiva fires that legend says was lit 3,500 years ago and has been burning 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and has never been extinguished. Hindus believe that the banks of the Ganges at the holy city of Varanasi is the most sacred place on earth to die and some 300 people are cremated at the site everyday to liberate their souls and break the cycle of death and rebirth and reach nirvana. There are many situations where a body is not cremated, poor and unable to afford the cost of wood etc. where bodies are essentially dumped into the river, un-weighted and free to drift to the shores. We didn’t witness any of this but heard the stories of bloated bodies washing ashore and being eaten by the hundreds of stray dogs that live along the banks. The ritual of the cremation is too long to describe so best to do a quick Google for some fascinating background on this.

Manakarnika Ghat

At the Southern end of the ghats,the Harichandra Ghat serves a different clientele and for a different reason. Suicides, murders, unconfirmed deaths etc. requires the investigation of the local coroner and after several days the bodies can become shall we say, quite rich in smell so for the less than a day or two old bodies wood is used and for the few days older an electric crematorium is used.  From what we could see rowing past on a boat on the river there is no ceremony and no body coverings. Just the corpse laying upon the wooden pyre with a few logs on top. Wood cremation takes about 3-4 hours, electric about 45 minutes thus eliminating the addition of burning flesh smoke to the already smokey and air polluted city, which brings me to why the other cremation ghat doesn’t surprisingly smell of burning flesh and what keeps the fire burning hot. Well, copious amounts of incense, sandalwood (which is very expensive) herbs, perfumes and other nice smelling stuff keeps the smell at bay. It actually smells quite nice as you watch the pyre burn and hearing the skull crack after about 15 minutes indicating the soul has left the body but it is the butter, ghee, liquefied butter that is poured over the cloth wrapped corpse that gives that little bit of extra fuel needed to get the job done. In the hope that I’m not sounding sacrilegious I wonder where the saying “buttering somebody up” comes from?

Harichandra Ghat

Varanasi is a one of a kind place. 40% Muslim, 60% Hindu. The Muslim call to prayer echoes throughout the city five times a day, the Hindu chanting and drumming and evening ceremonies resonate throughout in between. The narrow alleyways of the old city buzz with a semi laid back activity of a very hard existence while the new city bursts with an unimaginable web and tangle of life on the edge of the holiest river and city in the world.

Varanasi sums up our existence revealing all that is good and bad and also forces us to see not only how far we have come but how far we still have to go. Varanasi is known as the City of Life and the City of death, where Karma and Nirvana serve their purpose very well.

It was tough to break away from Varanasi but we did manage to take a 1/2 day trip to nearby Sarnath, the site where Buddha preached his first message of the middle way to nirvana after he achieved enlightenment. Many of the ruins date back to the 3rd century BC and Sarnath is one of four sites pilgrims are encouraged to visit at least once in their lifetime.

 

Khajraho

Yesterday and another long drive brought us to the town of Khajraho, a town on the beaten tourist path but surprisingly empty of tourists. We’re told tourism is way down this year and some blame the fact that India is no longer as inexpensive as it used to be while others blame world turmoil. Whatever the reason there were no crowds and the World Heritage designated sights were spell binding. But first, a quick off subject detour…

Today is day 16 of our originally planned 21 day tour of Rajasthan, Uttar Pradesh and Madhya Pradesh. We have driven just over 3,000 km’s of sometimes good roads, most times very bad roads and at all times very stressful driving conditions.

You don’t drive in India, you survive the drive in India.

There are no rules of the road.

Motorcycles, trucks and everything in between drive on the wrong side of the road with near head on collisions every few minutes being the norm. There are constant close calls with cows, dogs, goats, people and monkeys. There are squashed dogs littering the highways and surprisingly we haven’s seen one accident yet however we unfortunately did see a Macaque monkey get hit by a tuk tuk and the sad sight of the after effects will stick with us for some time.

Along with all of this is the incessant honking. It is unbelievable and it really rubs you after a while!

Everything combined adds up to a certain level of stress so by the end of the day we decided to fly to Varanasi tomorrow instead of driving.

We each had an Ayurveda massage this afternoon after visiting the incredible temples of Khajraho.

We’ll spend three nights in Varanasi and then fly back to Delhi on the 29th so we cut 2 days from our original plan and at least another 27 hours of driving however there will be many more hours of driving and new adventures starting next week when we head north into Punjab, Haryana, Himachal Pradesh and Kashmir.

We stayed at a great hotel in Khajraho, Hotel Isabel Palace, about 1 km from town and set off the main road and set beside some large fields of wheat.

Our room was spacious and clean and the bed was one of the most comfortable we’ve had so far. The staff was excellent, the view from the terrace restaurant was a sunset photographer’s delight and the food was always fresh.

Ravindran the owner took great care of us. He along with the rest of the staff were wonderful. We highly recommend this hotel. We were treated wonderfully.

The temples of Khajraho

Adinath Temple (Jain temple)

Orchha, Madhya Pradesh

Orchha is a beautiful little gem way off the beaten tourist path. We arrived on the 23rd and were greeted by a clean, laid-back and hassle free town situated on the Betwa River, one of the three cleanest rivers in India.

Not yet spoiled by tourism, although they could use a little more publicity, the town is host to a supreme display of Mughal-influenced Rajput architecture. Situated in the Bundelkhand region the town faces a large forest reserve on one side of the river and the fortified complex of the Raj Mahal and Jehangir Mahal located on a small river island connected by a narrow granite bridge. On the bridge children fish with magnets.People throw coins into the river for good luck as they pass over the old granite bridge and the kids get some of the coins by diving and setting the coins up for their magnet friends to retrieve. Other temples can be found throughout town but the soaring spires of the Chaturbhuj Temple steals the show.

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We stayed at the Bundelkhand Riverside Hotel which is owned by the grandson of Orchha’s last king. We had a beautiful room overlooking the river and relaxed with a drink surrounded by gardens as we de-stressed from another long drive.

The following morning we hired a guide and set out to view some of the sites this quaint little town had to offer.The artistry painted with mineral and vegetable bases last forever and and never fade. The art tells the story of the life of the Hindu history, Rama, Vishnu, Krishna and the incarnations. There is so much history and the 500 year old art is incredible. We are so fortunate to see this.

Raj Mahal and Jahengir Mahal

The Cenotaphs of Orchha

Agra, Uttar Pradesh

Agra and the Taj Mahal go hand in hand and is often the first or second city many tourists see. Most fly into Delhi and either do a day trip to Agra or spend one night in Agra so they can beat the crowds and see the Taj at sunrise. Delhi, for its size is actually quite nice with lots of tree-lined and well manicured boulevards. There are definitely many bad areas but our first impression over all was positive. We arrived into Agra on Monday January 22nd to one of the ugliest, dirty, smelly and congested cities we have seen in India to date. Fortunately this wasn’t a “first impressions of India” for us but for those who it was, well I’m sure they were in for a very big surprise. The Taj is magnificent and that’s all Agra has to offer. Our hotel, (the Ganga Ratan, don’t ever stay there) was disgusting with mice running around the bar area and one very large mouse or small rat making a quick exit when we entered our room. We nearly gagged all night long smelling the putrid polluted air and then dealt with the worst management you can imagine over our breakfast not being included because we didn’t book through a hotel booking web site. Anyway, crappy place with an amazing Mahal.